Embrace the Beauty of Compromise:

No Wedding Venue Will Have It All

Photo by Mary Costa Photography at Valentine.

Let’s talk about wedding venues! As a colorful maximalist Los Angeles wedding planner, I understand the desire to find the perfect wedding venue that fulfills all your dreams. However, it’s important to acknowledge that no venue will have every single thing you want. Instead of feeling disheartened, let’s explore the beauty of compromise and how it can lead to unexpected and delightful discoveries on your special day. For more specific questions to ask your potential wedding venue, reference this blog post.

 

1. Prioritize Your Must-Haves:

Photo by Todd Danforth Photography at Millwick.

 

When searching for a wedding venue, it’s crucial to identify your non-negotiables. Make a list with your partner of the key elements that are most important to you both, such as:

• location/proximity
• guest capacity
• restrictions
• parking
• indoor/outdoor
• design elements
• specific amenities

By prioritizing these must-haves, you can focus your search on venues that align with your core requirements, making the compromise process more manageable. While many couples have a laundry list of wants, it’s important to boil down your venue desires to prioritize.

 

2. Embrace the Element of Surprise:

Photo by Villa Visuals at Natural History Museum of LA.

 

While no venue may have everything you desire, keep in mind that compromise often leads to unexpected but delightful surprises. By being open to alternative options, you may stumble upon unique features or hidden gems that you hadn’t considered before. These unexpected discoveries can add a touch of magic and create a truly memorable experience for you and your guests. For example, a dinosaur at your cocktail hour!

 

3. Infuse Your Personal Style:

Photo by Peterson Design & Photography.

 

Remember that your wedding venue is a canvas waiting to be transformed. Even if it doesn’t have every single feature you envisioned, you can still infuse your personal style and create a vibrant atmosphere that reflects your vision. With the right decorations, lighting, and creative touches, you can turn any space into a colorful maximalist paradise that perfectly represents your unique love story. If you are a casual couple consider a casual venue. If you enjoy the finer things, consider a more elegant venue. Your wedding venue should reflect your personal style and vibe as a couple.

 

4. Seek Professional Guidance:

Photo by Peterson Design & Photography.

 

As a wedding planner, I understand the challenges of finding a venue that meets all your expectations. That’s why it’s essential to seek professional guidance. A skilled wedding planner can help you navigate the compromise process, offering creative solutions and alternative ideas that align with your vision. Their expertise and experience can be invaluable in transforming any venue into a dream setting. Jumping into the wedding process with my clients is a joy! Finding a wedding venue that fits their goals is priority #1!

 

5. Focus on the Overall Experience:

Photo by White Rabbit Photo Boutique at Castle Green.

 

While it’s natural to focus on specific features or amenities, it’s important to remember that the overall experience of your wedding day is what truly matters. The love, joy, and celebration shared with your partner and loved ones will overshadow any minor compromises made along the way. By shifting your focus to the bigger picture, you’ll be able to fully embrace the beauty of your wedding day, regardless of any venue limitations. This is especially true for clients who are looking for more theatrical wedding experiences, like this Tower of Terror-themed wedding.

 

Photo by Peterson Design & Photography at East Angel.

 

As a colorful maximalist Los Angeles wedding planner, I encourage you to embrace the reality that no wedding venue will have everything you desire. Instead of feeling disheartened, view compromise as an opportunity for unexpected surprises and creative solutions. By prioritizing your must-haves, infusing your personal style, seeking professional guidance, and focusing on the overall experience, you’ll create a wedding day that is uniquely yours, filled with abundant love, joy, and unforgettable memories to last a lifetime!