Colorful wedding planning and design for the

Showcase your love with a distinct wedding that lets your personalities take center stage. I’m Holly Gray, the out-of-the-box Los Angeles wedding planner, and color queen. I set aside weddings that are humdrum in favor of the colorfully creative. With my undeniable symphony of experience, ingenuity, and striking designs, I’ll plan a curiously remarkable wedding that’s totally you.

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Save you time, because you don’t have the 400+ hours it can take to plan a one-of-a-kind wedding.

Focus on what you want — from how you envision your ceremony to the unforgettable moments you don’t even realize are in store for you.

Let you actually enjoy your wedding and the process leading up to it because this entire kick-ass experience is for you.

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Savor your wedding day and ease last-minute stress with a wedding planner who manages the final logistics and day-of events so you can enjoy the festivities!

Design your dream wedding from top to bottom with a wedding planner who brings your incomparable vision to reality. There are no cookie-cutter weddings here! 

This completely customizable offering is ideal for a destination or estate weddings over the course of multiple days. Pull off the party of the year with a multi-event wedding weekend for your family and friends including the Friday rehearsal dinner and Sunday brunch in addition to the wedding.  

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I get it done and make it look easy designing and planning weddings that are just as marvelous as they are meaningful. I customize every moment, creating a wedding experience that’s as full of life as you are. 

Let’s cut to the cake (see what I did there?) — I’m not your typical wedding planner, but chances are, you’re not dreaming of a conventional wedding either. Like sprinkles and frosting, we’ll get along fabulously.

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diverse weddings for diverse people

because inequality and hate suck.

Everyone is welcome. 

Anything But Gray Events proudly supports other local small businesses, the LGBTQ+ community and The Black Lives Matter movement. My devotion to showcasing inclusivity, diversity, and love of all shapes, colors, and sizes is evident not only in my weddings and events but also in my vendor partners and associations. Just take a look at this magazine feature, “When The Bride & The Groom Are The Same Person,” where sameness is slain with forward-thinking.


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the reviews are in!

- Kiley, Wedding at The Lodge at Malibou Lake

"Once we hired her I knew it was one of the best decisions I had ever made...besides marrying my fiancé (now husband). We couldn't recommend her enough."

"the fairy godmother of weddings!"


"On our actual wedding day, it was surreal to see everything come together… The day was so perfect and if there were any hiccups or mishaps, we didn't notice a thing. That's why you hire a wedding planner! Holly is an absolute gem and organized the most perfect day we could have ever imagined."


"If you're reading this, stop, and just hire Holly Gray."


"Holly is a wonderful blend of qualities that you don't always find together. Seriously, thank God I didn't try to do this on my own. When you hire Holly you get organizational skills and professionalism, and you get access to her team of trusted vendors. The woman knows EVERYONE and is a matchmaker when it comes to pairing you with people she thinks will "get" you."


"There was no way we could’ve pulled it off without her! The day was absolutely perfect. Our guests are STILL talking about how great the wedding was. I never thought I would be one to hire a wedding planner but now I have no idea how someone could have a wedding without one. I would recommend Holly to anyone getting married in the LA area 100%."

"best. decision. ever."

- Em, Wedding at Valley Relics Museum 

"She's so amazing I'm about to leave my fiance and marry Holly instead"

"Holly is 10/10"

the catalyst for creativity

Oh, so you want a little bit more inspiration beyond what’s on Instagram? Let’s take a quick stop at the Anything But Gray Events blog — full of vibrant wedding features, community, and insightful wedding planning tips.

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Let’s begin the sightseeing, then! Take a look at the weddings that publications can’t get enough of. With a hint of theatrics, a lot of detail, and a big splash of color, you’ll realize that your offbeat wedding aspirations aren’t so far-fetched after all. 

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